What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
People telling me things I already know.. yes, I am aware of it. They don’t need to say anything. But if I want to get some response I will let people know with my own words and my own time. So that’s an aspect of my actual offline interactions, I live in this online reality for some hours. But to be honest I live mostly in my mind, my inner world of memories and dreaming at night.
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Red flags? Here is my opinion, my thoughts.
Note: sorry about the drinking, I’m craving it now and I chose image because I feel like drinking now and it relates to the question as well.
I notice these red flags in myself often. So that’s said first. I feel it’s not good being less than honest, but I understand why people are sometimes or quite often fall prey to it.
and fear of truth because it’s painful to see clearly how fuckd up we truly are inside. I have this every time I look in a mirror and god yes I hate my reflection with a burning passion.
even if I cannot percieve my inner Light I know there is Light behind any darkness. So at times I don’t want to see the Light because the darkness is familiar to me.
but one aspects I really really raise red flags is you guess it? Intrusive bullying behaviour. I’m an anarchist for a reason and good at spotting bullies even before they speak. I know well because these people affected my education and social life tremendously. I still struggle with these experiences through my schizoaffective disorder symptoms of voice-hearing and paranoia. I’m officially diagnosed with moderate-severe Asperger syndrome and a strong case of bipolar type schizoaffective/schizophrenia with mood disorder.
so the last part is the biggest one for me. I don’t like being around bullies because they prey on the good-natured and naive persons. Plus they kick your friend to the ground for several minutes. No way I will ever forget, even if I find healing.
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