Right now I’m drinking a cup of raspberry tea mixed with something relaxing herb mix with valerian, chamomille and other herbs. It’s delicious and strong, plus organic (økologisk) of course and no sugar added.
It’s romantic because it is so heart-warming and lovely. It also helps to relax so I would give someone this tea mix if they came to visit me in my home. I enjoy being genuinely useful to others and I really like this cup of hot tea ❤
Other romantic activities and symbols include hugs, deep conversations, comfortable clothing and blankets, raspberry anything (not only as hot tea), dreaming and a lovely hot meal like lasagne or a great pizza. I don’t have experience of true romantic relationship, but I know my own likes in other relationships and my own well-being.
I really like pretty and comfortable clothing that express my identity and passions. So the black high heels are a strong symbol of being powerful and of a particular beauty. I really like my new Arctic winter boots. Hoodies are my favourite items and I like them so much because they make me feel safe and comfortable at the same time being fashion conscious, btw I live colourful items a lot I don’t wear all black. I have a new found passion for jeans and as I have lost some quite significant weight the skinny jeans are welcome, they need to be comfortable and of good quality. I really enjoy drinking and delicious food, especially my favourite energy drinks and warm meal like lasagne plus some cans of good alcohol-containing cider. I love when someone decide on buying and then tell me on the phone they bought me something.
It shows they care about me and then I very want to do something for them also, I do pay attention to what someone values and likes and I am there for my friends and family members. I buy good quality socks to my cousin who really appreciate them and likes to get practical items. I remember their birthday and send texts every time to make them (and myself) feel happy and appreciated.
My definition has several other aspects too, I value the relationship with my close ones. I’m interested in astrology and symbols, my roots and good social/political causes related to fairness, justice and equal rights. I have a 11th house Cancerian Venus, second house Libran Mars. And I like giving someone attention and care about how they feel inside, that they are very important to me and genuinely valued for who they really are. I’m strongly Leo and Virgo influenced in 12th house and Rising sign.
To me it’s all about our relationship and caring deeply about the other persons needs and wishes.
Note: about astrology heavily, and written in some Norwegian text
My Venus sign is Cancer and my Mars sign is Libra. I’m going to add a page on my astrology here soon. I have Asperger syndrome and astrology can help to understand others and myself much better. I never have had any romantic relationship but I know my feelings about what I want in a close relationship and what I can give to others.
Norwegian language text; Jeg synes det er romantisk når noen setter pris på det jeg gjør for folk, når lar meg vite når jeg gjør noe godt nok eller til og med overrasket dem. Jeg liker når de kjøper gaver til meg som jeg virkelig liker fordi de følger med i hverdagen. Dette er venner og familie altså, jeg er uten partner og uerfaren i kjærlighetsforhold.
Det jeg gjør selv for andre er mye relatert, jeg gir folk på besøk en kopp med varm te jeg selv liker veldig godt og tror de liker den spesielt også. Det er små ting, men veldig dyptgående likevel. Selv er jeg veldig glad i å føle meg komfortabel fysisk og emosjonelt, vakre gjenstander og noen som ser det gode i meg.
Black high heels, a hoodie and skinny jeans. A wonderful energy drink I really like drinking or a surprise warm meal. A couple cans of cider and a pair of good quality socks. I like physical things and that’s how I feel valued and seen.
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