They lied

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

My mean girl tormentors took advantage of my different conditions to lie about their abusive behaviour toward me. They said I had wet in my pants after they intentionally spilled orange juice on me in class, the teacher didn’t believe me and this really hurt my pride deep. And it didn’t help the situation that I actually had real enuresis as well, night and day. Sorry if that’s TMI. I inherited this from my father actually, he was very severely bullied so it’s very painful to say it out loud. xenophobic kids all over the place.. spreading fear and misery in young hearts.

But where is the success in this? It’s my true inner strenght and determination to keep fighting no matter what happens. I don’t let people walk over me, I have pride in my opinions and my perspective and most importantly I’m kind to others as well. We learn by living, our experiences both pleasant and very difficult ones.

I hope your days are good and thanks for reading my blog ❤